Potty Training Tips and Must-Haves for Toddler Moms
Getting Started: The Basics of Potty Training
Embarking on the journey of potty training is a significant milestone for both toddlers and their parents. The first step in this process is determining when begin. Most experts suggest that children are generally ready to start potty training between the ages of 18 months and 3 years. However, as every child is unique, it is important to consider developmental readiness as opposed to age standards.
Signs your child is ready for the potty include the child’s ability to communicate their needs, showing interest in using the toilet, and demonstrating some level of independence, such as staying dry for longer periods or being able to pull their pants up and down. It is also important to consider their emotional and physical development, as a child who is not emotionally ready may feel overwhelmed, making the process more challenging for both the child and the parent. It is also beneficial for you and your toddler to choose a time where stress is at a minimum. Trying to potty train during big life changes such as the birth of a sibling, moving to a new home, starting daycare, etc. may not yield the best results and could wind up creating more anxiety for the whole family.
Establishing a consistent potty training routine is fundamental to success. This can be achieved by choosing specific times of the day for potty visits, such as after meals or before bedtime, which can help toddlers associate these moments with toilet use. Creating a positive and relaxed atmosphere during potty time is essential. Parents can encourage their children by using rewards, such as praise or small incentives, to motivate them and reduce anxiety around the process.
Tools and Supplies
One of the first items to consider is a potty chair or toilet. There are numerous options available, from simple potty chairs that suit younger toddlers to adaptors that allow children to use a regular toilet. Choosing a chair that resonates with your child’s preferences, such as those featuring favorite cartoon characters or vibrant colors, can engage them in the process. Having a comfortable potty chair encourages frequent use and allows for longer durations of sitting. Our family loves The First Years Racer Potty. It is fun for the kids and the removable seat and be placed directly on your toilet when your child is ready.
Training pants are another essential supply, as they provide a transition between diapers and underwear. Look for training pants that are easy for toddlers to pull up and down independently, as fostering this level of autonomy is key during potty training. Like potty chairs there are so many fun designs so finding undies tailored to your child’s preferences is a cinch and makes the experience all the more fun. Letting your child choose their underwear can also give them a sense of ownership and pride in what they’re doing. I like to stay away from pull ups as much as possible because they are essentially diapers. Using training pants or even transitioning to underwear helps your child understand the difference between pottying and actually having using the potty.
Make It Fun
Incorporating music and books is a fun way to get a reluctant child to the potty. Fun and engaging books about potty training can help familiarize your child with the process while helping them identify with relatable characters who are also on their potty training journey. Singing a unique song can also cue your child that it’s time to go! Music and books are also an excellent distraction to help impatient children stay in their seats!!
Establishing a rewards system and games into your routine can motivate toddlers throughout their potty training journey. Simple rewards, such as stickers or small prizes, can be effective in reinforcing positive behavior and encouraging consistency. Keeping a reward chart where children can physically place a sticker each time they successfully use the potty can also add an element of excitement to the process. Just like adults kids want instant gratification and reward for their accomplishments. My boys loved “making a monster truck” by peeing on magic heat activated stickers. Instant reward and a nice target! There are limitless tools to entice your child but these are some of my favorites.
Potty Training On The Go
When you’re ready to put your toddler’s potty training skills to the test it’s important to be prepared. Just like at home remember accidents happen and a new level of anxiety that comes using an unfamiliar bathroom may make things a bit tricky. Familiarize your child with the bathroom wherever you are make sure to bring some comfort potty items from home (i.e. their favorite potty book). These items can also help bring less stress and less mess!! And don’t forget to load up on extra clothes and undies before heading out. Bonus tip: boys pee on their feet all the time, don’t forget extra socks! Disinfectant wipes are also handy!
Stay Organized
Potty training can be stressful for mom too! Try to stay calm and stress free during the process to make it as easy as possible on your toddler. Organize your items and keep everything you need near the potty so you’re not running all over grabbing undies, wipes, etc. I like to keep extra undies, books, stickers, wipes, and extra clothes in a cute little basket beside the potty.
In short, let your child be your guide to readiness, don’t force it and have fun!!!
